Sunday, October 20, 2013

Generosity in Judgment, in Forgiveness, and in Giving


Luke 6:37-38 

INTRODUCTION

In Luke 6, Luke’s version of the Sermon on the Mount Jesus names two attitudes to avoid and two behaviors to cultivate. He says,

Judge not, and you will not be judged;
condemn not, and you will not be condemned;
forgive, and you will be forgiven;
give, and it will be given to you;
good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will  be put into your lap.
For the measure you give will be the measure you get back.”

I. “Judge not..condemn not…”

A. First of all I want to deal with a common misunderstanding of what Jesus means when he says, “Judge not…”

Sometimes this is called “the unbeliever’s favorite verse.”
Some people say, whenever anyone expresses an opinion about right or wrong, “You know, we’re not to judge.”
As if it is our duty to be stupid, to be oblivious to evil, to pretend that everything people do or think is okay—if they think it’s okay.
Jesus makes it clear that this is not his meaning. When we read these words in Matthew, he follows with this: “Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw pearls before swine” (Matthew 7:6). Clearly Jesus expects us to discriminate between right and wrong, good and bad, truth and error.
We need to have firm ideas of truth and righteousness—not so we can criticize others, but so that we can live according to the truth.

St. Paul writes in Philippians: “This is my prayer, that your love may overflow more and more with knowledge and full insight to help you to determine what is best, so that in the day of Christ you may be pure and blameless, having produced the harvest of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ for the glory and praise of God” (Philippians 1:9-10).

B. In his command, “Judge not” Jesus is warning us against that censorious, faultfinding spirit that thinks it is obliged to play God by evaluating others’ actions so that we can feel superior.

The trouble with fault-finding is that the more we find fault with others, the more blind we are to our own sins.
Have you ever listened to someone waxing eloquent about the faults of another and thought: “But you do the same thing; you just don’t know it.”
“Judge not, that ye be not judged” works even on a human level.
Censorious people draw attention to themselves.
I remember a Peanuts comic strip in which Lucy tells Charlie Brown: “You have a tendency to talk loudly when you get excited, don’t you Charlie Brown? Why do you do this?”
In the third frame Charlie Brown says, “I don’t know. No one has ever been rude enough to tell me about this before.”
In the last frame Lucy is musing to herself: “We critical people are always being criticized.”
Once I had a fellow teacher criticize my grammar. Ever after that I always noticed whenever she made a mistake in grammar.
Whenever we criticize people, we make them especially sensitive to our faults.

C. But there’s a more serious issue here.

When we take delight in the faults of others—whether we are right in our judgment or not—we sin and expose ourselves to the judgment of God.
It’s as if we get up on our little throne right beside the Lord to help him judge the world.

Jesus says, a few sentences later, “Why do you see the speck in your neighbors’ eye but don’t notice the plank in your own eye…You hypocrite. First take out the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s or sister’s eye.”
There are many proverbs on this point:
“Forget others’ faults by remembering your own.”

Here are some proverbs from various nations:
“Everyone has enough to do in weeding his own garden” (Belgian).
“For others’ sins we have the eyes of a lynx, for our own, the eyes of a mole” (Bohemian).
“He who sees his own faults is too much occupied to see the faults of others” (Arabic).

If we focus on the sins of others, we become sour, disagreeable, miserable people.
If we focus on the good we see around us, we become gracious, encouraging, affirming, cheerful people. People like to be around us and we help spread goodness around in the world.

II. “Forgive, and you will be forgiven.”

A. This works on a human level.

If you are gracious with other people’s faults, they are more likely to overlook yours.
If you cut other people some slack they are more likely to return the favor.

B. As Christians we have no option. If we are unforgiving we can’t be forgiven. If we can’t pass on the grace we’ve received from God, we can’t claim to have received forgiveness for ourselves.

Jesus gave us a prayer that includes: “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.” And then he added, “If you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

III. Last of all, Jesus adds, “Give and it will be given to you, good measure, pressed down shaken together, running over will be put in your lap.”

A When we give, we receive more than we gave—not money, but the satisfaction of knowing we are doing God’s work, that we are fulfilling our purpose on earth.

Do you notice that we can sum up each of these commands—judge not, condemn not, forgive, and give—with two words: Be generousgenerous in our judgment, generous in our forgiveness, and generous with what we have.
It could be money, or time, or compliments, or encouragement, or just paying attention to others.

I once read a book entitled: “How to Get People to Do Things.”
As I remember, the theme of the book is that if you want to get other people to please you, you must please them. If you want others to meet your needs, you must meet theirs. If you want to be loved, you must show love for them.

B. Some psychologists devised a clever experiment to determine whether generosity really does make people happier than stinginess.

They devised a questionnaire to determine how happy each participant in their study was.
Then they gave each of their subjects a sum of money—it may have been 10 or 20 dollars—and told them that they could do whatever they wanted with the money—spend it, save it, or give it away.
After each participant had disposed of the money, they gave the happiness questionnaire again.
They found that the ones who had given the money away ended up being more happy than the ones who had spent it or saved it.
Their conclusion: the cheapest way to “buy” happiness is to give money away, not to keep it or spend it.

I once read of a tombstone that had engraved on it these words: “What I spent, I had. What I saved, I lost. What I gave, I have.” This is what Jesus meant when he said that we can give away our treasure on earth to reap a treasure in heaven.”

So when churches urge tithing, it’s not just because they need money to pay the bills. It’s because they know that giving promotes spiritual maturity.

When St. Paul wrote his thank you letter to the Philippian Christians to thank them for the gift he sent them, he added, “Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the profit that accumulates to your account…a fragrant offering, a sacrifice acceptable and pleasing to God. And my God will fully satisfy every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:11-19).

CONCLUSION

A church treasurer once addressed a letter to a wealthy businessman requesting a contribution to a service project sponsored by the church. She received a curt refusal which closed with: “As far as I can see, this Christianity business is just one continual ‘give, give, give.’”
Nothing daunted, the treasurer wrote back as following: “Thank you for the best definition of the Christian life I’ve every heard.”

This story was posted on the website HelpOthers.org in August 2006:

The writer wrote about something she had seen while shopping.
She was shopping in a toy store and decided to look at Barbie dolls for her nieces.
She noticed a little girl who was excitedly looking through the Barbie dolls as well. The little girl had a wad of money clasped in her hand. She would pick up one Barbie after another and ask her father, “Do I have enough?” He usually said “yes,” but she would keep looking and asking, “Do I have enough?”
As she was looking, a little boy wandered in across the aisle and started sorting through the Pokemon toys. He also had money in his hand, although it didn’t look like very much. He was with his father as well, and kept picking up the Pokemon video toys. Each time he picked one up and looked at his father, with the same question—“Do I have enough? Each time, his father would shake his head
The little girl had chosen her Barbie. But then she stopped and was watching the boy and his father. Rather dejectedly, the boy had given up on the video games and had chosen what looked like a book of stickers instead. He and his father then started walking through another aisle of the store.
The little girl put her Barbie back on the shelf, and ran over to the Pokemon games. She picked up the last one the boy had picked up, whispered something to her father, and hurried to the checkout.
The woman who tells the story got in line after the girl and her father. And the boy and his father got in line after her.
When the clerk had taken the girl’s money and put it into a bag, the little girl whispered something to the clerk. The clerk smiled and put the bag under the counter.
The woman telling the story lingered after making her purchase to see what was going to happen.
When the boy and his father reached the cashier, she rang up their purchases and then said, “Congratulations, you are my hundredth customer today and you win the prize!” With that, she handed the little boy the Pokemon game. He stared in disbelief and then said, “Wow! Just what I wanted!”
The little girl and the shopper who tells the story were standing in the front of the store, the girl with a big grin on her face.
As they walked to their car, the father asked his daughter, “Why did you do that?”
She said, “Daddy, didn’t Nana and PawPaw want me to buy something that would make me happy? Well, I did.”
She had decided on the answer to her question: “Do I have enough?”

Let me leave you with these questions: Are you generous—with your judgments? With your forgiveness? With your giving?

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