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Sunday, February 24, 2013
"Lord, I Believe; Help My Unbelief
Mark
9:14-29
INTRODUCTION:
We have heard all our lives
about the power of faith.
You know the Bible verses:
“If you have faith like a
grain of mustard seed, you can move mountains.”
“All things are possible to
him who believes.”
“Do not be afraid, only
believe.”
Sometimes I think that I
have lots of faith. That is when things are going well.
But when I am sick…or
lonely…or disappointed…or something awful happens—those times, I find out how
weak my faith really is.
We love Jesus and we want to
believe, but sometimes we wonder if we really do.
There are whole books in the
Bible about the difficulty of faith—Job, Habakkuk, Ecclesiastes, Lamentations.
Many of the Psalms were
written by people who were struggling to hold on to their faith in God.
It may surprise you to know
that doubt is not a sin. Doubt is a
necessary part of living for God.
Someone said, “Doubt is the
twin brother of faith.”
If there were no doubt,
there would be no need for faith.
We wouldn’t have to believe
because things would just be obvious.
You don’t have to have faith
to believe that I’m standing here talking to you.
You can see, and hear me,
and touch me.
But we need faith to believe
that Jesus is here in our midst, because we can’t hear him, touch him, or see
him.
We do experience God—and
sometimes we experience God in unmistakable ways.
But other times God seems
far away.
Maybe we wonder: “Is there
really a God?” “Does he really care about me?”
Once I was trying to comfort
a woman in a nursing home who was facing death.
I mentioned God’s promise of
eternal life
She said sadly, “I just
don’t know; I just don’t know.”
Some people have confidence
when they enter that dark valley. I have been with some of them.
Others are afraid. They
wonder whether it is true. They wonder if they really believe.
Even people with real faith,
may doubt and fear.
The last time I was here we
read the story of the Transfiguration.
This was the time—of all
times in Jesus’s life—when his glory shone forth in an unmistakable way.
Jesus’s disciples could
never forget that experience.
But that didn’t mean that
they would never doubt again.
As soon as they had
descended the mountain of Transfiguration, something dreadful happened.
Sometimes that’s the way it
happens for us. We experience something wonderful from God. And then something
awful happens, and we wonder.
Let’s read that story.
And when they came to the disciples, they saw a great crowd about them,
and scribes arguing with them. And immediately all the crowd, when they saw
him, were greatly amazed, and ran up to him and greeted him.
And he asked them, “What are you discussing with them?”
And one of the crowd answered him, “Teacher, I brought my son to you,
for he has a dumb spirit; and wherever it seizes him, it dashes him down; and
he foams and grinds his teeth and becomes rigid: and I asked your disciples to
cast it out, and they were not able.”
And he answered them, “O faithless generation, how long am I to be with
you? How long am I to bear with you? Bring him to me.”
And they brought the boy to him; and when the spirit saw him,
immediately it convulsed the boy, and he fell on the ground and rolled about,
foaming at the mouth. And Jesus asked his father, “How long has he had this”?
And he said, “From childhood. And it has often cast him into the fire
and into the water, to destroy him; but if you can do anything, have pity on us
and help us.”
And Jesus said to him, “If you can! All things are possible to him who
believes.”
Immediately the father of the child cried out and said, “I believe;
help my unbelief!”
And when Jesus saw that a crowd came running together he rebuked the
unclean spirit, saying to it, “You dumb and deaf spirit, I command you, come
out of him, and never enter him again.”
And after crying out and convulsing him terribly, it came out, and the
boy was like a corpse; so that most of them said, “He is dead.”
But Jesus took him by the hand and lifted him up, and he arose.
And when he had entered the house, his disciples asked him privately,
“Why could we not cast it out?” And he said to them, “This kind cannot be
driven out by anything but prayer.”
I. Let’s imagine the scene.
A. The sight that greets
Jesus and Peter, James and John as they get to the bottom of the mountain is
one of confusion and quarreling.
Jesus’s disciples are
embarrassed by their failure to be able to cure the sick boy.
Jesus’s enemies are rubbing
it in.
The crowd runs up to Jesus,
and Jesus asks what is going on: “What
are you discussing…?”
A man steps forward. He is
the father of a tormented boy.
He has brought his son to
the disciples, hoping they can heal him.
He knows that they have been
able to wonders in the past and he hopes they can help him.
But they can’t.
B. The affliction of the son
is called by the name the ancients used for epilepsy. But they saw a deeper
problem than just a medical one.
They are convinced that the
boy is possessed by a demon.
The father tells Jesus how
that when this evil spirit seizes his son, it dashes the boy down and he foams
and grinds his teeth and becomes rigid.
Then Jesus says something
very odd. He says, “O faithless
generation how long am I to be with you? How long am I to bear with you?”
People have made many
suggestions about who Jesus was referring to when he said, “O faithless generation!”
Was he speaking about the
father’s lack of faith?
Was he speaking about the
disciples lack of faith?
Was he talking about the
doubting of the crowd? the scribes?
I think he was talking about
the whole situation.
Jesus was a man of great
faith. He was constantly pained by the lack of faith in the people he came to
serve.
Their lack of faith caused
them to reject God’s love for them.
Their lack of faith limited
his ability to heal their diseases.
Several times we read how
pleased Jesus was when he met someone who had strong faith.
And in the same way he was
discouraged by lack of faith.
It made his life painful.
C. The father tells Jesus, “If you can do anything, have pity on us
and help us.”
Jesus now tries to encourage
the man’s faith by saying, “If you can!
All things are possible to him who believes.”
And the man’s response is
the very best response he could have given. He says, “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!”
D. Jesus rebukes the unclean
spirit and it comes out of the boy convulsing him terribly so that he became
stiff like a corpse. And the bystanders said, “He is dead.”
But Jesus takes him by the
hand, raises him up, and gives him back to his father.
Do you notice the tenderness
of the Lord as he takes the child by the hand?
I can think of at least
three other times that we read in Mark’s gospel that Jesus took someone by the
hand to heal him or her.
He took Peter’s
mother-in-law by the hand, and her fever left her (Mark 1:31).
He took the synagogue
ruler’s 12-year-old daughter by the hand and raised her from the dead (5:41).
He took a blind man by the
hand and led him out of the village to heal him (8:28).
II. I want to call your
attention to the father’s prayer and recommend it to you.
His prayer: “I believe; help my unbelief!”
He did want to believe. That
shows that he did believe a little.
We don’t need strong faith
to unite yourself with God. Weak faith will bring Jesus into our soul.
But we need strong faith to
overcome the doubts that assail us.
So we need to pray about it.
Keep praying every day for more faith.
Weak faith will bring us to
heaven.
But strong faith will bring
heaven into our soul.
Strong faith will fill us
with peace and joy.
CONCLUSION
Everyone here, I suspect,
has seen remarkable answers to prayer.
We have seen healings.
We have seen relationships
restored.
We have seen problems
overcome
I have seen remarkable—maybe
miraculous—answers to prayer.
But I have also been
disappointed I prayed and nothing happened.
Some people take Jesus’s
words to mean that if we only have enough faith we’ll get everything we ask
for.
But prayer isn’t magic.
If everyone always got
everything they prayed for, nobody who had believing friends would ever die.
If God answered every prayer
all the children who prayed would get “A’s” in all their classes.
Every football team would
win all their games.
We would never have droughts
or floods.
We read that the great
apostle Paul had a serious physical ailment—he called it a thorn in the
flesh—and he prayed for it to be removed.
But God refused. He said to
Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you. For strength is made perfect in
weakness.”
Jesus himself prayed
earnestly that he wouldn’t have to face the cross—but he wisely added, “Yet not
my will but thine be done.”
Like Paul and Jesus, we just
pray and leave the matter in God’s hands, trusting that he will do what’s best.
Whenever we pray we are
connecting with God.
Prayer is the way God has
given us to maintain our closeness to God and our confidence that he is with
us.
I heard about a man who was
very sick. He put a chair beside his bed and imagined that Jesus was sitting in
that chair, and he talked with Jesus often. It gave him great comfort to know
that Jesus was so close.
After he had slipped away to
be with God, his friends found him with his hand stretched out and placed on
that chair.
Prayer can be asking for
things, but even more important, prayer can be thanking God for his goodness to
us.
Or prayer can be just
imagining that Jesus is beside us.
Some things we can pray for
with complete confidence that they are God’s will and that we will
receive what we ask for.
receive what we ask for.
We can pray for
forgiveness—and God will always forgive.
We can pray for strength for
times of adversity—and God will give us strength.
We can pray for humility…and
compassion…and patience…and that God will make us kinder…gentler…more
helpful…more patient.
We can pray that God will
bless our friends—and our enemies.
It is especially important
to pray that God will bless our enemies…and anyone who has wronged us.
There’s a lot I don’t
understand about prayer
But let’s keep praying for
whatever is important to us.
Let’s keep believing that
God hears our prayers.
Let’s be patient and keep
praying when we don’t receive what we want.
If our faith is real—even as
small as a mustard seed—it can grow.
And it will grow if we keep
looking to Jesus and crying out: “Lord,
I believe; help my unbelief!”
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