INTRODUCTION
In an article in Christian Century (February 11, 2011),
Pastor Diane Ross tells about how she had received a call a couple of weeks
before from a woman in her congregation. The woman had been coming to church
with an older gentleman, a friend of the family. He couldn't drive anymore, so
she had volunteered to take him to church. She had said it would help her be
more regular in her own worship attendance. When she called, she was excited.
She wanted her pastor to officiate at her wedding in May.
“I'm 60 years old and I'm
getting married for the first time!” she told her pastor. She couldn't believe
her luck. She had gotten re-acquainted with an old friend, the son of the man
that she brought to church. And they had decided to get married.
A week after this call, the
pastor learned that the woman was hospitalized with complications from a cold.
On Thursday night, she had a stroke. On Tuesday, she died.
When her pastor arrived at the
room of the woman’s mother to plan the funeral, the mother’s first words were:
“It didn’t turn out right.”
Pastor Ross comments, “Some
people talk about the ‘sovereignty of God’ as if God has orchestrated every
single blessed and tragic small and great thing in the world. They say that very
single solitary thing that happens is part of ‘God's plan,’ as if God is
pulling all kinds of strings all over the place. I believe in the sovereignty
of God, but I'm not sure that's what it means. I think that somehow, in the end,
God will work everything for good, that there will be a time and a place where
there is no more crying and no more death, where every tear will be wiped away,
and where we will cast our crowns before the throne of the Lamb. In the meantime, sometimes, ‘it just
doesn't turn out right.’”
Sometimes
people say things like: “Everything
happens for a reason,” or “God has a
plan,” or “God’s in control,” or
“Whatever happens is for the best,”
or “It must be God’s will.”
Maybe
you have said—or thought—such things. Some Christians believe that God
micromanages the universe, so that everything that happens, happens according
to God’s script—as if we are simply players in the play that God wrote before
the beginning of time.
But
that’s not what the Bible teaches.
The
Bible teaches that many things happen that aren’t God’s will.
It’s
not God’s will that people are terrorized in wars started by wicked men.
It’s
not God will that people starve to death.
It’s
not God’s will that tsunamis and earthquakes take thousands of lives.
It’s
not God’s will that people kill, and cheat, and steal.
It’s
not God’s will that babies are born profoundly handicapped—to grow up and go
through life with terrible burdens.
It’s
not God’s will that little children are tricked into becoming sexual playthings
of wicked men.
Bad
theology blames all the trouble in the world on God.
The
idea that everything is according to God’s plan is a terrible stumbling block
to faith in God.
God
loves us. And God weeps—as we do—at the tragedies that befall humankind.
I
hope I can tell you something from God’s Word that will help us to think about
the sorrows that we all experience—and even sorrows that are worse than
anything anyone in this room has had to endure.
Part
of the problem is that God has created a world that is free.
God
could have created a world of puppets instead of people. Then he could just
pull the strings and we would all do what he wanted us to do.
But
then we could have no choices. It would be a world without love.
I
suppose that God could have created a natural world that would have no
earthquakes, no floods, no droughts, no germs, and no accidents.
God
is omnipotent—he could have made a world in which he would control everything
like an author controls all the events in his story. But that would be a world
with no freedom, no love, no faith or courage.
Not
only are humans free in our world, so nature is also free. If everything in
nature was an expression of God’s will, then the whole world would be simply a
part of God.
But
the world is not God. The world is also free, and things happen because nature
is not scripted by God but free to develop and change.
Did
you know that God also grieves? Paul
begs the Ephesian believers: “Do not
grieve the Holy Spirit of God” (Ephesians 4:30).
God
is also sometimes disappointed. In
Genesis 6—this was the time before Noah’s flood—we read, “When God saw the wickedness of mankind was great in the earth and that
every inclination of the thoughts of people’s hearts was only evil continually,
he was sorry that he had made
humankind on the earth, and it grieved
him in his heart.”
Jesus
wept over the fate of Jerusalem.
Jesus wept at Lazarus’s grave. Jesus weeps today as he views the sorrows
of our sad old world.
A
few weeks ago a young white man visited a Bible study at Mother Immanuel Church,
an African-American Church in Charleston, South Carolina.
The
church members welcomed him, and after enjoying their hospitality for an hour,
he took out his gun and shot 9 of them dead. Do you think God did not weep?
A
few months ago in Iraq ISIS fighters challenged four brothers—the oldest was
15—to renounce Christ. The boys said, “No
we love Jesus; we have always loved Jesus; we have always followed Jesus. Jesus
has always been with us.” The terrorists demanded, “Say the words to
renounce Jesus!” The boys said, “No, we
can’t.” And the terrorists sliced their throats. Do you think God did not
weep?
Do
you think that God did not weep when people were buried alive in the earthquake
in Nepal a few weeks ago?
Do
you think that God did not grieve with you when your dear one died?
God
sent his Son into the world was so that he could experience solidarity with us
humans in our sufferings.
Jesus
experienced disappointment, hatred, injustice, betrayal, mockery—and the most
horrific death wicked men could devise. He even experienced the feeling of
being abandoned by God!
Jesus
understands. He sympathizes. He walks with us. He holds our hand as we go
through the dark valleys.
Now
that I’ve laid out the problem—I hope I won’t disappoint you by admitting that
I don’t have the answer to why there’s so much trouble in the world.
Some
people say that the Bible gives us the answers to all our questions. But that
isn’t true. Scripture is not a sun; it is a lamp. The Bible tells us truth from
God.
The
Bible tells us what we need to know to live for him—to live a life of faith and
service to others.
But we have to live with questions.
But
God’s Word does give us some ways to look at evil and sorrow that will help us
to keep believing that God is good. We can believe that he loves us and that he
can make things come out for the best, after all.
That
is what the “omnipotence of God” means. It means that God can bring good out of evil. He can bless his people even in
this world of sorrow.
And
he has another whole new world in which to make up for the sorrows of this one.
I
have read whole books about this problem. I don’t have time to tell you what is
in those books.
But
I would like to bring one scripture to your attention that will help us to
begin to think about the subject.
It
is in Romans 5, beginning in the middle of verse 2:
We
rejoice in our hope of sharing the glory of God.
More
than that, we rejoice in our sufferings,
knowing
that suffering produces endurance,
and
endurance produces character,
and
character produces hope,
and
hope does not disappoint us,
because
God’s love has been poured into our hearts
through
the Holy Spirit which has been given to us.
I.
How can St. Paul say, “We rejoice in our
sufferings”?
A.
The word translated “rejoice” is kauchaomai,
which is usually translated “boast.”
But
boasting in English usually means bragging or advertising oneself.
So
our translators used the word “rejoice.” Paul isn’t saying that whenever we
suffer, we are bubbling over with happiness. He is saying that when we suffer,
we can have a triumphant, rejoicing
confidence—in God!
Because
we suffer, God can achieve good in our lives that would not be otherwise
possible.
B.
Then Paul writes: “…and suffering
produces endurance.”
Can
you imagine what you would be like if your life had been always easy. Suppose
that, as a child, you had always been given whatever you wanted. You would have
been a “spoiled child.” You would have been obnoxious.
Suppose
that you had never had a disappointment, only and always success?
How
would you have developed the inner strength to deal with your troubles now?
The
Greek word translated here “endurance” is hupomone.
The lexicon gives these meanings for the word: “patient endurance,” “steadfastness,” “perseverance,” and “fortitude.”
Suffering
can break us. Or it can make us stronger—if we hold fast to God and never give
up.
Do
you remember roller skates? (Children don’t have roller skates any more, but we
did.) A little boy had been given a pair of roller skates. He was trying hard
to stay up on them, but he kept falling down.
A
well-meaning grownup said, “Why don’t you take a break and try again later?”
But
the boy answered, “I didn’t get these new skates to give up on!”
That
little boy was learning something that day besides how to roller skate. He was
learning patient endurance.
C.
Next, “…and patient endurance produces
character.”
The
word translated “character” is dokime.
It means “a proof,” or “tested character.” So the meaning is that patient endurance produces tested character or the quality of being proved.
In
Japan, every May 5th is Boys’ Day. Each house with a boy in it flies a big
cloth fish on a pole high over the house. It’s like a windsock. The colorful
fish stretches out in the wind. Each family flies a fish banner for every boy
in the house.
The
fish is a carp. The Japanese admire carp because carp swim strongly against the
current. They want their boys to be strong and brave and swim against the
current.
Even
a dead fish can swim with the current. To be a faithful Christian, you have to
learn to swim against the current. Tested character means to swim against the
current.
Whenever
we suffer—whether from sickness, injustice, or disappointment—we have an
opportunity to prove the reality of our faith.
Trouble
can make us bitter. Trouble can make us give up on God.
Or
trouble can drive us to God. Trouble can make us cling to God.
You
and I have seen examples of both.
I
knew a useful young Christian, who I admired. But he forsook the faith because,
in adversity, God didn’t answer his prayer. He never—as far as I know—has gone
to church again, or even called himself a Christian.
Trouble
made him give up on God.
Or
trouble can make us cling more tightly to God.
If
you want to know whether God is real, don’t go to someone who’s had an easy
life. Go to someone who has suffered and clung to God through it all and who
still has bright faith.
That
person will help you believe that God is real.
D.
So “suffering produces patient
endurance, and patient endurance produces tested character, and tested
character produces hope.”
Trouble
sweeps away the false hopes, the things that used to distract us.
When
the prospect of worldly success is
gone, when we know that we will never be rich
or famous or beautiful or brilliant,
then we are set free to put our hope in God.
Troubles
make us long for heaven.
Tears
wash away the dust of this world from our eyes so that we can see more clearly
the Heavenly Country—our Eternal Home.
“Hope,” in the Bible, is not wishful
thinking, like “I hope it doesn’t rain on our picnic,” or “I hope my back gets
better.”
Hope,
in the Bible, is “an anchor for the
soul” (Hebrews 6:19). Hope is
confident, sure, expectation that God will fulfil his promises.
II.
Last of all, the apostle writes, “And
hope doesn’t disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts
by the Holy Spirit which has been given to us.”
A.
If I can respond to my troubles with thankfulness and praise, then I open my
life up to God’s Spirit, who can pour God’s love into my heart.
At the very center of our experience as Christians
is the knowledge that we are loved by God.
B.
In Victor Hugo’s great book, Les
Miserables, Hugo writes, “The
supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for
ourselves—say rather, loved in spite of ourselves” (Book 1, chapter 4).
But
as wonderful as it is to be loved by another human being, it is even more
wonderful to have the conviction that we are loved by God.
To have the conviction that you are one of
God’s treasures, that Jesus loves you so much that he endured death for you,
and that he loves you still, even though you are a flawed and sinful and broken
human being, and that he will love you to the end—if you can be convinced of that, there is nothing better in all the
world.
C.
A young pastor visited one of his elderly parishioners. She was old and very
poor. She lived in a shack. It stank. The windows were few, dirty, and cracked.
She had lost her husband and both of her children.
Her
pastor didn’t know what to say. So he asked her, “What can I do for you, Mrs.
Jones?”
“Pray
with me, pastor,” she said, and added, in a way that the pastor would never
forget, “…and let it all be praise.”
D.
The greatest thing in the world is to have God’s love poured into your heart:
…to
have the assurance that God loves you…
…to
have the assurance that God loves you—and will never let you go.
CONCLUSION
Sometimes
it just doesn’t turn out right.
Don’t
think there’s an answer for all our questions—not in the Bible or anywhere
else.
But
Jesus said, Come to me, all who labor
and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
Come
to Jesus every day—in the morning, during the day, in the evening, and in the
watches of the night—and bring to him your anxieties…your pains…your
disappointments.
I
often use a prayer that contains these words:
Give
me grace, I beseech thee,
to
understand the meaning of such afflictions and disappointments
as I
myself am called upon to endure.
Deliver
me from all fretfulness.
Let
me be wise to draw from every disposition of thy providence
the
lesson thou art minded to teach me.
Give
me a stout heart to bear my own burdens.
Give
me a willing heart to bear the burdens of others.
And
give me a believing heart to cast all burdens upon thee.
(John Baillie, Diary of Private Prayer, day 27, morning)
Give
your troubles to Jesus—and ask him to use them for his glory …for your good…and
to help you serve others.